Holistic Health: You are what you think
Holistic Health: You are what you think
We have all heard the saying, “you are what you eat.” But it would be just as accurate to say “you are what you think.”
One of the most common issues I encounter with patients is negative self-talk. An internal dialogue filled with negativity and pessimism is toxic to your mind and body. In addition to acupuncture and herbal therapies, diet and lifestyle recommendations comprise a large part of Chinese medicine. This toxic internal dialogue falls squarely in the lifestyle category.
There is a saying in Chinese medicine that there is no separation between the mind, body, and spirit. Spirit, in this sense, means your interaction with the world around you or your consciousness. The thoughts that you have are a reflection of how you see the world, how you resolve issues, and how your body will eventually feel or behave.
If from the moment you wake up until you go to sleep your internal dialogue is defeating, demeaning, and degrading, your brain simply takes those as fact and the body falls in line. Training your internal dialogue to be kind, understanding and compassionate will create a body, mind and spirit that are more at ease, less stressed and more adaptable.
Last month’s post reviewed the significant effects of stress on the body. If your internal dialogue is defeating and abusive, your body stays in a stressed state, causing a cascade of chemical reactions that negatively affect your body. Among these are inflammatory agents like cytokine, c-reactive protein, and homocysteine. These substances are associated with host of issues in the body, including cardiovascular disease. We can literally think ourselves sick.
In addition to the physical effects, negative self-talk impairs our ability to see things in a positive light. Researchers have found that those who have repetitive negative thoughts have trouble seeing their life in a positive light and difficulty working out interpersonal issues in a positive way.
In Chinese medicine, this process is extremely well understood. There is a diagnosis of liver depression qi stagnation that can be the beginning of a whole host of patterns of disharmony, or root conditions. Liver depression qi stagnation correlates most closely to stress. When we are stressed, the liver is depressed. Depressed in this sense means weighed down or stifled, bottled up. One of the liver’s jobs in Chinese medicine is to course the qi, or the functionality/motive force of the body. When this pattern is present long enough, we often see depressive heat form and build up. Depressive heat would best correlate to the inflammatory agents mentioned earlier.
THREE STEPS TO CHANGING YOUR INTERNAL DIALOGUE
1. Observe – Not only what you say, but the tone.
2. Objectivity – take a thought and objectively analyze it. Is it the truth? Is it accurate and unbiased?
3. Reframe – Now that your attention is on your internal speech, you can start to reframe your thoughts in an objective way. This isn’t about being delusional, rather about rephrasing your words and tone to something positive and action oriented.
An example would be the thought “I am so dumb, I will never get this.” First, you observe the harsh and demeaning tone. Next, you objectively analyze the thought. Does it seem accurate? Do your life experiences support being dumb and never learning new things? Unlikely, so we know it is exaggerated. The last step is to reframe. Take the phrase and say it differently. Perhaps, “Well, that way didn’t work, but I have another idea,” or “I like to challenge myself and will try again.”
Try an experiment! For the next week, observe your internal dialogue. Do you like what you hear? Would you permit someone to speak to you that way? Taking the effort to reflect will pay off! Your body, mind, and spirit will thank you.
Tracy Zollinger, is an Alameda mom, licensed acupuncturist and business owner. You can reach Tracy at 299-0057 or www.tracyzollinger.com.
Effects of self-focused rumination on negative thinking and interpersonal problem solving. Lyubomirsky, Sonja; Nolen-Hoeksema, Susan. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, Vol 69(1), Jul 1995, 176-190.